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September 2, 2008 by Cynthia Morris 4 Comments

Transition Rituals for Creatives

You’re in the middle of writing the most fabulous paragraph when the phone rings. It’s your child’s school and you’ve forgotten to pick her up.

You leap up, caroming from blissful creative mode to full-on panic mode. You rush out the door, the cursor on your screen blinking, your creative bliss lost. We become grumpy, resentful and our desire to write dissipates.

Sound familiar? This wrenching transition style happens all too often. It’s one of the main reasons we fear entering the creative zone. We’re afraid we won’t be able to make a graceful return to the ordinary world where our real-world obligations await us.  Going in and out of this magical place can be jarring. The demands of life — children, housework, jobs, other people — are much different that the demands of the creative life.

It doesn’t have to be wrenching. Transitions between life and writing can be easy. But it requires some effort and some training on our part to make transitioning between our roles work for us.

How can writers and artists make the transition smooth and easy? I suggest ritualized acts help to honor the creative time. Below are ten transition methods that my clients have used successfully. Experiment to see which rituals work for you.

Free-writing offers a quick way to move from one thing to the next. Limber up your brain and word flow with ten minutes of flow writing. You may write about your topic or about what you are transitioning out of, as a way to release that role and focus on the writing role.

Read a short and inspirational passage from a book about writing or another inspiring text. Better yet, read the last things you wrote and pick up from there.

Create a mantra or saying that helps you to step into creativity. “I honor my creative time” or “Welcome to the creative zone” or something that suits you. Feel free to make a sign and post it in your writing zone.

Tune in to music to train yourself to easily access the writing zone. Try playing the same music when you write or have a handful of inspiring tunes ready. Mozart’s music is known to stimulate creativity and brain power. I have also used the relaxing Hemi-Sync sounds when writing my novel to help me access the flow state.

Take a walk before or after you write. Get your body moving and let your mind wander. You may pick up some fresh ideas along the way, so bring a small notebook or have your digital device ready to capture your brilliance.

Prepare your writing space. When things are in order and ready for you, it is easier to jump into the flow. End your writing sessions a few minutes early and take that time to tidy your writing zone.

Create your insertion point. At the end of every writing session, pinpoint where you will start the next session. This will save you so much time and help you move past any emotions that may try to dissuade you from writing.

Do some stretching or other physical activity. Prepare your body to sit still for longer periods of time. This will serve you both going into and coming out of the creative zone.

Say a prayer or take time to meditate or be still. Accessing a deeper, sacred space can help you to swim in the creative pool more easily.

Honor the boundaries you have set up around your writing. If you have communicated that you are unavailable, do not be available. Turn off your phone and put it out of reach.

What helps you transition into and out of creative mode? Share your transition rituals in a comment below. 

Filed Under: Creativity, The Writing Life

July 20, 2008 by Cynthia Morris Leave a Comment

The Best Use of Rejection Letters

If you’re in the writing game, you’ve got them. They weigh a ton, those form letters, graciously declining your novel, screenplay, chapbook, self-help book. They’re the letters that swing through your mailbox, hitting you in the gut like a sledgehammer. No, they don’t want your precious creative offspring, no matter how much time and love you’ve poured onto its pages. But there’s a positive side to this emotional and creative devastation.

Rejection letters mean you’re trying. It means you’ve completed a work and have hoinked up a bucket of courage and are putting yourself out there. And you deserve something for that. A little perk, a way to realize that despite the pain of the rejection letters, you’re actually doing very well, thank you.

If you’re sprightly lucky, someone has written a personal note regarding your piece. Something beyond the platitudes about your possible success elsewhere. Something that you can hang on to. No, not the “pacing was slow and wandering” part. (I cling to that enough, playing with it like a Rubik’s cube in the middle of the night, trying to puzzle out what the agent was really saying.) It’s the other stuff, the good stuff.

“Your novel’s detailed, moody descriptions set the tone for the setting and time so well, and Lily is an engaging and lovable protagonist.”

The good stuff. It deserves its own line. Here’s what I suggest.

If you’re gleaning rejection letters, congratulate yourself for even trying. Then start culling out those kind gems, no matter how small they may seem. Put them all in one file. Use quotation marks and attribute the quotes to the agency or publisher who rejected you.

Voila – a lovely testimonial sheet for when you feel dejected about the future life of your baby. Post it where you can see it and remember that your work is good. Don’t give up.

Oh, and the testimonial sheet will make you feel quite smug when your work does get published. You can feel sorry for all those people who didn’t embrace your work the first time around.

Filed Under: The Writing Life

May 15, 2006 by Cynthia Morris 2 Comments

Ten Rejection Rituals

Rejection hurts – there’s no doubt abut it. But there are ways to deal with it so you don’t feel like a victim.  Shifting your perspective about rejection can be a huge help. Actually doing something about rejection can make it even easier to bear the pain of having your writing rejected. Here are a few rituals, or acts, that you can do to move forward from the big bad No!.

1. Write an encouraging letter to yourself. Remind yourself why you write and that it is worth any suffering.

2. Write another letter that expresses your emotions to the rejecting editor (then throw it away).

3. Revisit a former writing success such as a contest won or a prior publication. Gloat over your previous victories and know that they are just the beginning of your success.

4. Spend some time free writing on your experience with rejection. Start with the prompt, when I was rejected….

5. Throw a tantrum. Grab a big pillow and pummel it with all the force of your disappointment and anger behind it. Rant and rave about the unfairness of it all.

6. Exercise. Go for a walk or a run or a bike ride, or whatever you do to get into your body. Offer up your sweat to the rejection.

7. Some people save their rejection letters. You may want to add it to a file or…

8. Burn the rejection letter, and with it, all the disappointment.

9. Call a writer friend and tell them about the rejection. You may ask them to recount your strengths as a writer and a person. Make sure this friend is able to offer unconditional reassurance as part of your rejection ritual.

10. Do any of the above rituals and then get back to whatever you were writing. You must keep going!

What are your methods for handling rejection? Add your comments here.

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